All Things Flowers

Happy February SJE fans! Yes, it’s February, the month of love and soon you may be receiving flowers. Have you ever found yourself wondering about the different flower terms? If you are knee deep in wedding planning or just starting you will probably hear many floral terms during the planning process. It isn’t necessary to get a PhD in flowers before getting married, however these are some terms that your wedding planner or floral designer might use.

Types of Bouquets:

Cascade
A waterfall-like spill of blooms, often composed of ivy and long-stemmed flowers, that is wired to cascade gracefully over the bride’s hands.
Nosegays
Small, round bouquets, approximately 16 to 18 inches in diameter, composed of densely packed round flowers, greenery, and occasionally herbs. Nosegays are wired or tied together.
Tossing
This copy of the bridal bouquet is used solely for the bouquet toss.
Tussy mussy
From the Victorian era, a tussy mussy is a posy carried in a small, metallic, hand-held vase. Today, the term is often used in reference to the holder itself.

Other Flowers or Arrangements:

Fish bowl
Low centerpiece style that consists of flowers clustered in a glass bowl.

Huppah

A wedding canopy decorated with flowers, that is an integral part of the traditional Jewish ceremony.
Ikebana
Japanese-style flower arrangements that are aesthetically in unison with space, size, earth, and air.

Photo Courtesy of Style Me Pretty

Photo Courtesy of Style Me Pretty

This post was inspired by The Knot.com

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Feature Friday..Collide!

Happy Friday SJE fans!

Every Friday this month, we will be featuring local event professionals. Today we would like to introduce you to Collide, a collaboration between Divisi Strings and LG Entertainment. This is a great alternative if you are looking for something different than your regular DJ or wedding band. I had a chance to listen to them in person and they sound awesome!

If you think they’re only appropriate for very formal events, think again! Check out their website for audio clips of classical and contemporary music. Your guests will be pleasantly surprised when they hear Michael Jackson’s Beat It or Queen’s Bohemian Rhapsody filling the air.

http://www.divisistrings.com/

Divisi Strings

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WWPD: Who Pays for the Wedding?

Photo Courtesy of Life123.com
Photo Courtesy of Life123.com

Today the rules have completely changed on who pays for the wedding. I plan weddings for brides who have their parents paying, they are paying, the groom’s family is paying, or everyone is paying for a part of the wedding. It was not that long ago that there were set rules about who paid for what. The bride’s family was to pay for the wedding consultant, wedding gown,  the entire cost of the reception, flowers, photography, music, transportation and ceremony. The groom’s family paid for the marriage license, officiant, bride’s bouquet, boutonnieres, rehearsal dinner and honeymoon. There is not a right or wrong answer on who pays for what. It all comes down to what you and your fiancé feel comfortable with. If you’re in doubt about who is paying for what, there is nothing wrong with talking to both sides of the family about it. 

Payment information courtesy of The Knot

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Don’t Forget to Say Thank You

 

 

Happy Monday and Happy February! We are certainly zipping right through 2010 at a fabulous pace. Today we examine the all important “Thank You” of wedding etiquette.

 
Don’t email. Even though we live in an age of instant communication via social networking, cell phones, and emails, there is nothing more personal than the handwritten thank-you note. Don’t send thank-you notes via email.

 
Don’t procrastinate. Ideally you will send thank-you notes as soon as gifts arrive. It will seem like a much easier task if you are not trying to send a hundred at one time. However, the accepted standard is to send thank-you notes within three months of receiving each gift.

 
Do thank everyone. This includes people who literally put a gift in your hand no matter how much you thanked them in person. Yes, you should send thank-yous to the gift givers at your shower. (Even though you probably thanked them as you ripped open the gift)

 
Do make it personal. How many times have you read, Dear customer or Dear friend?   That’s highly impersonal.  Try to divide the thank-yous among your fiancée so that you are writing to the people you actually know.   This way you can add something unique to each person.  Even though the note will be coming from both of you it will seem more thoughtful.

Tips inspired by Emily Post’s Wedding Etiquette Fifth Edition

Photos Courtesy of Cards Direct.com

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SJE Loves…Bedazzle My Bon Bons

 

Bon Bons

 

Simply Jubilee Events went to the Special Event Conference in New Orleans a few weeks ago. We are always on the lookout for fresh ideas for our brides and to our surprise we fell in love….with Bedazzle My Bon Bons!! They taste as good as they look. Yes, you eat the entire bon bon including the glitter. The possibilities are endless for this treat and they are available in a myriad of colors. Enjoy!

www.bedazzlemybonbons.com

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If you have not registered for all those lovely wedding gifts then check out the exclusive Crate & Barrel registry events.

C&B

 

 

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Save the Date Video

Kim & Dan Save the Date

Just got engaged?  Ready to send out save the date cards? Before you do…consider the newest idea creating buzz in the world of weddings.  Save the date videos! These videos are a great way for you and your fiancé to tell your personal love story to your friends and family.

 

 

Inspiration Courtesy of The Knot

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Indian Wedding Traditions

Photo Courtesy of the Knot Photo Courtesy of the Knot

Good morning and welcome to the last full week of January 2010! Whew, time sure flies when you’re having fun. The Simply Jubilee team met so many beautiful brides of all backgrounds and cultures at the Bridal soiree this weekend.  It’s an awesome pleasure to live in an international city such as Houston.  Our rich population helped to inspire today’s entry, Indian wedding traditions.

 
Indian wedding traditions have a long history with meaning woven into every detail. Here we explore some of these beautiful traditions and what they mean.

 
The Ceremonies

In India the couple doesn’t choose their wedding date. The wedding date is chosen using a priest, fortune teller, astrologer or wise family member. This lucky day is chosen using factors like birthdays and phases of the moon. If this day falls on a weekday many couples in the US will hold two wedding ceremonies; one with close friends and family during the week and one larger celebration on the weekend.

Mehndi Party
The mehndi painting party usually happens two or three days before an Indian ceremony. Henna is painted on the female friends and family of the bride. The artist also paints the bride’s hands and feet to protect them from evil. The darker the henna, the more luck the couple will have.

Agni
In Hindu ceremonies a fire is lit and the officiant gives thanks to the fire god, Agni. In a Hindu tradition called saptapadi, the couple will take seven steps around this fire.

Tying it All Together
The hasthagranthi is a Hindu wedding tradition which involves typing the couple’s hands together with string. This is followed by Shakhohar, when the parents place their hands on the couple’s to represent their union as family. Then the couple is wrapped in a scarf to show their unity as husband and wife in a custom called gathbandhan.

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Engaged & Confused Bridal Show

Engaged & Confused

 

For all of you brides, who are planning your weddings or recently engaged, come visit us at the exclusive Engaged & Confused Bridal Show at the Houstonian. This intimate bridal show features the latest trends, styles and best vendors in Houston. Go to http://www.houstonbridalshows.com/home/ to get your tickets.  We look forward to seeing you there.

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His and Her Signature Cocktails

Photo Courtesy of Groomsadvice.com

Photo Courtesy of Groomsadvice.com

Signature cocktails are always a huge hit at weddings and most guests enjoy seeing what fun drink the bride and groom have come up with. Surprise your guests with his and her signature cocktails at your wedding. Weddings are full of his and her items, from cakes and toasting glasses to songs. Adding his and her signature cocktails is just another way to personalize your wedding. It can be as simple as just picking your favorite drink and then coming up with a creative name for it. If neither of you have a clue what you want your drink to be or what to name it check out http://www.drinksmixer.com/cat/1/ to get inspired. Make sure when picking your cocktails, choose one that is a little stronger and one that is on the lighter side to appeal to more of your guests’ taste buds.

Cocktail Inspiration Courtesy of Blisstree.com

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